Reading: A committed and purposeful relationship.
Question: I never ask about love & romance as I consider myself quite independent etc etc & because I feel we need to feel complete within ourselves and another person is an addition to help us grow. However I’m feeling like I’d like to put it out or I have put it out to the Universe that I am nearing to being ready to enter something committed and with purpose. What do you see happening over the next little while and can you tell me about that? - M.
Answer: I understand your independent nature, but bear in mind that being in a relationship won’t stop you being independent but will give you an interesting opportunity to open your heart, exercise compassion and grow spiritually.
The cards here are the 9 of Cups, the Ace of Pentacles and Strength. Keep putting out to the Universe the essence of what you want and it wil take you by surprise, when you least expect it and be more than you ever thought it could be.
There seems to be an expectation that any relationship will ‘underwhelm’ you and leave you feeling unfulfilled. This might have been true in the past, but you have grown and changed and the person you attract into your life now will be very different to past partners.
You could benefit from doing some soul searching into your beliefs about relationships and take some concrete steps to change them for the positive - Louise Hay’s ‘You Can Heal Your Life’ workbook would be a good start, or even a few months with a good counsellor. The only thing stopping you is your belief that it’s not possible to have a really good, rewarding relationship with somone on the same wavelength as you, and a bit of a need for perfection. There will always be something. No one and no situation is perfect.
The appearance of Strength in this reading assures us that true passion can be found - a meeting of bodies, hearts and minds - if you overcome your inner resistance and possibly the Ego’s need to be ‘right’ that relationships suck or don’t work.
I’m getting a time frame of about six months - accept all the social invitations you get as much as possible because I’m seeing you meeting someone in a social environment around friends.